245. Sadism and Masochism - miserable ways of humans

Certain boys and men like fair beautiful girls and women

Fair beautiful girls and women seldom go to them and build up relationship with them or marry them.

It becomes a hell for those boys and men - their desires unrealized. 

Subconsciously, they would like to cause discomfort, suffocation and torture and that is why the fair and beautiful never go to those who "like" them most.

They have been taught by their incorrigible selfish parents, elders, relatives and others not to give too much happiness to others for free since their teenage. Those poisonous seeds become poisonous trees as they grow up.

Certain boys and men don't like girls and women - fair and beautiful type - the delicate, beautiful and feminine. They only like the masculine - rough and tough - the rowdys, hard men, thugs etc

They might like dark and dull looking girls and women. This category is also there. 

Fair beautiful girls and women "will build up" relationship with them and even marry them only to torture them. It becomes a "hell" for them. People of "men only" type and ugliness inside don't like delicate, beautiful and feminine in their lives. 

In both cases, the fair and beautiful only create misery and torture for them and others. 

They don't go who need them most. That would be giving "too much" of happiness to them.

They go where they are not needed. They go where they are detested. 

Others don't benefit or enjoy too much because of them. So they go to them who don't like them.

Their lives also become hell and misery because they put themselves with others hate them.

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They are both - Sadists (who create pain in others) and Masochists (who enjoy pain within them)

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Miserable ways of human beings.

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The above write is correct only for certain types of fair and beautiful girls and women. It can be told in most relationships. Not all. The millions of individuals - society type. 

Sometimes, the goddesses come as girls and women and walk on Earth as most of Hindu philosophies state. They are the enlighted ones whose heart is functional. They don't and "cannot" hurt others. If one is fortunate, a boy might have friendship with girl who is angel or a man might marry a woman who is goddess. 

But they happened only before 20th century and there is no possibility of them happening in 21st century and later.

21st century is "mind" oriented and "powerful mind" oriented human species. The heart exists only physiologically not psychologically.